If you don't want to go, she's going to have to get a court order to kick you out of the house. If she can show a judge a good reason why you should be forced to leave (abuse, destruction of property, etc.) then she can get that court order. But without it, especially if that house is community property,. she's stuck with you until things are finished.
That isn't to say that you shouldn't consider moving out if you're getting a divorce and you expect that she will end up keeping the house for whatever reason. It's just that you can't be forced to leave without a court order.
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