i am filing for divorce, my spouse has a attorney. i cannot afford one. my spouse failed to respones within the 30days, i filed a default form, i had to fill my own divorce forms and had the clerks at the courthouse check my paperwork out and everything was fine, but then i received a letter from the court that i failed to answer a question on there and the form was kicked out. then we had a appt. for medation and he did not show. my spouse has a domestic violence and terriost threats case that i filed on him, but then i dropped the charges. he has my 11yrs old son with him that i want legal custody and spousal support from him. what advice can you help me with to win this battle.