My son is 14 yrs. old, chooses to live with his father, because the schools are better and his friends are there. His father has remarried, doesn't work, gets food stamps and any other things the state will allow him.
His wife works has two children and get child support from her ex. I have been paying about $300.00 a month for my son to his dad. This isn't court ordered and we have no custodial agreements through the courts.
They constantly go to the beach, have bought two motorcycles. Both have new vehicles. Grandma buys my son's clothes, takes him where he needs to go. I offer, but they say he doesn't need anything, but keep holding their hands out for money from me.
Would the courts require me to pay child support, if they would hire a lawyer and take me to court for not paying? He never paid me a dime when I left him and had both boys. My other son is in college, I send him money every month, dad sends him nothing.