If you are the restrained party and she is the protected party in a criminal case, you are under an affirmative obligation to avoid her. You cannot communicate with her and likely must stay at least 100 yards away from her at all times. If not, you could be facing an additional charge of violating a restraining order. Speak to your attorney about this issue
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