Unfortunately, you should not have signed the Deed until after your name had been taken off of the note. The short answer to your question is "no," there is no way to take your name off of the mortgage. The mortgage is a contract between you and the mortgage company, not between you and your ex. The only way to alter that contract is by refinancing or paying off the note. Your ex has no legal obligation to remove your name from the mortgage. Now, your only bargaining chip - your name on the deed - is gone. The rest of the bad news is that you have also lost your security interest in the home. Sorry. You should have asked the question before you signed the deed.
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